We recently were invited to be a substitute for a local BNI networking group. Today we’re going to tell you why it’s a great idea to be connected in the community and why using a program like SendOutCards is a great way to stay in touch with those that you meet.
Our good friend Dan Dickerson had another engagement that he couldn’t miss so he asked me to fill in for him. As a substitute fill in, it was my duty to tell the group what Dan does and what type of referral would be best for him.
To prepare for the BNI meeting I had done some research on being a substitute:
Sometimes you need a substitute when you can’t attend your meeting. It is best if you have a non-BNI member stand in for you, perhaps a partner or customer or other business colleague. If that isn’t possible, members have offered to substitute for other members.
Who can be your substitute:
- Anyone who is not a member of your chapter, and is not on the list of the list of Who Cannot be a Substitute.
- Good Choices Are: Co-workers, Clients, Prospective New Members, Family, and Friends.
When a BNI Member or Non BNI Member, substitute’s for a BNI Member the following guidelines must be followed:
- Members must insure their substitute understands everything that will be expected from them. The substitute’s responsibility is to represent the person and the profession of the BNI member, and the substitute can mention their profession if there is no conflict with a BNI member.
- Members should know all professions represented in their chapter, and try to avoid a substitute that may be perceived as a competitor to another member of their chapter.
- Substitutes should be prepared to give a 30 second presentation about the absent BNI member.
- Substitutes should bring any referrals that the absent BNI member may have.
- Substitutes should bring back to the absent BNI member any referrals they receive.
Before the meeting started as I was able to visit with and network with several member of the group. This was a great opportunity to meet new people and find out what they do and how we could help each other get more business.
About BNI:
BNI is the largest business networking organization in the world. We offer members the opportunity to share ideas, contacts and most importantly, business referrals. BNI was founded in 1985 by Dr. Ivan Misner. There are hundreds of BNI Chapters around the world.
BNI meetings follow an agenda of introductions, education, 10 minute presentations and the passing of referrals. Most meetings last 90 minutes. After the meeting, the visitors are giving a packet of information on how to join and other materials. Our meeting was no different and went according to plan.
Feel free to check out some of the photo’s from the meeting.
Networking with SendOutCards:
As SendOutCards distributors, we strive to use the system to it’s fullest potential this is especially true when attending networking events like BNI.
When meeting someone new it’s always good to learn a little about that person and how their business works. Do they have a territory? What kind of customers are they looking for? Do they specialize in one area? How long have they been in business? How can I help you with a referral?
It’s always good to get a little personal, but no too personal. Asking general questions like are you married? Do you have children? Where are you from? Where did you go to school? What do you like to do in your free time? These questions will help you build a relationship with that person. You should be looking for connections that you can relate to that person with. If you attend the same church or your kids are on the same softball league will immediately help your relationship grow.
A good networker, asks questions, then makes mental notes. Try to match a name to a face. This is one of the best things about networking then connecting later on social networks like facebook and LinkedIn. Be sure to ask for a business card, and have yours ready if they would like one. I normally don’t offer a business card unless they ask. Most people will ask if they are in business.
When I get a business card I look for several things, #1 being an address. Can I send this person a card later on? If it’s not on the card I will ask for it and write it on the back. Then I will ask if it’s okay for me to send you a card in the mail.
Note: when networking and collecting business cards. Always keep one pocket just for those cards of people you meet. As soon as the meeting is over, find a few minutes to go over the cards and make any notes that you remember from your conversations. This practice will reward you with better relationships.
After a meeting like this, I will sit down and begin to send out my cards. First card is always a “nice to meet card” and “hope we can connect in the future”
A good follow up card, is “hope you have a wonderful day” Then just put your name and that’s it. Don’t try to sell a person or give a coupon etc in your card.
With the SendOutCards contact manager, you can organize your contacts by group. Creating groups for single events can help you stay organized. Likewise, you can create unlimited amount of groups, and contacts can be located in multiple groups. For instance you meet someone that is a BNI member and a real estate agent, and maybe a personal friend and they would be listed under all three groups in your contact manger.
Lastly, after your meeting try to think of others in your network that you can give a referral to. This works both ways, if you already know someone that could use this persons service give the referral. If the person you just met could use a current contacts service then put them in touch. This is another great way to use your social networks like facebook and LinkenIn.
What if you are just getting started? What if you just moved to an area or go to a networking event away from your town? You can just let everyone know that you are new or not from there, but you are open to building your network in their area and you would like to connect. I always say “A stranger is just a friend I haven’t met yet”. That will normally break the ice.
Become a better networker, use SendOutCards to build relationships, provide referrals, and get more business.
Comments to this post are welcome. Let us know your approach to networking and meeting new people.
Michael Sparks-ThoseCardFolks








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